Is A Large Dog Right For Me?
A Sensible Guide to Making the Right Decision
Thinking of bringing home a big dog? Here’s a sensible, heartfelt guide to help you weigh the pros and cons before committing to a large breed.
It’s a big question, and it’s brilliant that you’re asking it: Is a large dog right for me?
You’re clearly thoughtful, caring, and doing what too few people do – thinking this decision through before getting swept up in puppy eyes and Instagram reels.
If you’re considering buying or adopting a large breed puppy, chances are you’re already turning over the pros and cons in your mind. And rightly so. This isn’t just about bringing home a cute ball of fluff – this is a long-term commitment, that cute little pup is going to be a mighty Bestie sooner than you imagine, and it’s going to dictate and shape your daily life for years to come.
In this post, we’ll walk through the realities of living with a large dog. I’ll share all the wonderful reasons big breeds can be an incredible addition to your home, but I’ll also be honest about what it really takes to raise and care for one properly.
Because here’s the thing: this is a decision of both the heart and the head. And I want you to feel absolutely confident before you take the leap.
There are far too many beautiful dogs sitting in rescue centres across the UK – not because they were bad dogs, but because their humans weren’t fully prepared for the reality of owning a large breed. You’re already doing the right thing by researching, asking questions, and giving this the time it deserves. So you’re clearly on track to being a fantastic Bestie, simply because you’re here reading this.
Without using scare tactics, it’s fair to say that bringing a large dog into your life might just be one of the biggest emotional and financial commitments you’ll ever make – and I’m here to help you make it with clarity and confidence. If you put the time in now, you’ll thank yourself every single day down the line.
The Joys of Living With A Large Dog
Let’s start with the magic part – because make no mistake, big dogs bring big love.
They’re loyal, expressive, often hilariously clumsy, and seem to believe they’re lap-sized well into adulthood. There’s something deeply grounding about walking beside a dog whose steady stride matches your own, or curling up with a creature who thinks ‘personal space’ is a myth. They’ll know you and you’ll know each other like nobody else in your life. They’ll be your confidant, hearing all your secrets and conversations, never judging you in the process. They’ll love you on those days that felt like nobody else cared.
Many large breeds truly are gentle giants – calm, patient and fantastic with families when raised with care and boundaries. Their size can make them feel reassuring and protective, but their hearts are usually made of absolute mush. I’ve never felt more secure or confident than since I’ve had Harley in my life.
If you love long walks, outdoor adventures, and the idea of a companion who will follow you anywhere (and possibly sit on your foot while doing so), you’ll find immense joy in sharing life with a big dog. But makes sure you do wholeheartedly weigh up the pros and cons before committing to this life. That’s the fairest and kindest thing you can ever give your Bestie – a well thought through start to life.
The Practical Side: Cost, Space & Lifestyle
Now for the sensible stuff.
1. Food & Nutrition
Big dogs eat a lot. Expect your shopping bill to increase – not just for food, but for quality food. A healthy diet is essential for joint health, digestion and long-term wellbeing. Think fresh, balanced, and portioned for their needs rather than just ‘more of everything.’ It’s expensive, get that in your head now.
2. Vet Bills & Insurance
Everything from flea treatments to surgery costs more when your dog is larger. Insurance premiums for big breeds can be double those for smaller dogs. It’s worth researching average costs before you commit. And it’s not advisable to skip insurance, unless you want an even tougher decision down the line….and a hefty credit card bill. And costs can spiral for things you wouldn’t expect or relatively minor things. For example, an infected paw caused by a stray grass seed turned into a £800 vet bill for Harley this year, thankfully he is insured.
3. Space
Big dogs need room – to stretch, to sleep, and to simply move. It’s not rocket science to conclude that a small flat might not be ideal unless you’re very active and committed to daily exercise. There are plenty of people who own a large dog and live in an apartment, it definitely do-able, but make sure you’re fully committed to getting outdoors when your dog isn’t resting.
4. Exercise Needs
Most large breeds need consistent, structured exercise – not just for fitness but to burn off mental energy. They’re happiest when given a job to do, even if that’s just carrying their own lead or joining you on a hike. This can actually turn out to be one of the blessings of owning any dog, good health for us too – even on the days you can’t be bothered, you need to stretch you legs and get outside for the sake of your Bestie. I can’t imagine how much less exercise I’d get each week if it wasn’t for Harley.
5. Strength & Handling
Large dogs are powerful, especially when excited or frightened. Good training and manners are not optional – they’re essential. If you’re not confident handling a dog who might weigh nearly as much as you do, this is something to think very carefully about.
Personality & Training: Big Body, Soft Heart
Large dogs aren’t automatically ‘tougher’ or more dominant – in fact, many are sensitive souls who thrive on gentle, consistent communication.
Positive, reward-based training works best. Harsh handling or dominance techniques can backfire spectacularly with a big, sensitive dog – leading to fear or reactivity.
Think of it this way: you don’t need to control them, you need to communicate with them.
When they trust you, they’ll happily give you their full cooperation – and probably a very large cuddle or a sloppy kiss to the face.
Family Fit & Lifestyle Match
Before you fall for their giant paws and puppy dog eyes, take an honest look at your daily routine:
- Time: Large breeds often need more attention and exercise than smaller dogs. Have you got time in your day to devote to interacting with them and exercising them.
- Travel: They don’t exactly tuck neatly into the car – or the back seat of a taxi. How will you transport them when you go on hols or need to visit the vet?
- Family: Do you have small children, elderly relatives, or other pets who might be startled by a bounding 40kg friend? Think carefully about how they will fit into your family group.
- Work: Can you offer regular companionship, or will they spend long hours alone? Be realistic, and place emphasis on thinking about their needs not just yours.
None of these are deal-breakers, but they’re real-life factors that will shape your experience.
The Emotional Reward
Despite the mud, the bills, and the occasional tail-whip to the face, living with a large dog is definitely a gift. They remind us to slow down, to be present, and to find comfort in small things (like having a head the size of a rugby ball resting in your lap).
A large dog will make you smile daily, pull you outdoors when you’d rather stay in, and teach you patience you didn’t know you had. Keep this forever in your mind as you think this big decision through – the effort is real – but so is the joy.
Bringing home a big dog isn’t a small decision – but it’s one of the most rewarding ones you can make when you’re ready.
Do your research, plan your budget, set realistic expectations, and if possible, spend time with large breeds before you commit. Visit rescues, talk to owners, walk a few gentle giants and see how it feels.
Because when it’s the right fit, you’ll know.
And I promise you, your heart will expand, your personal space will shrink, and your life will never be the same again – in all the best possible ways.
